We are here year-round to answer questions and help with your site experience. Below are the queries we hear most often.
Is it really free to join?
Yes. It is free to join, use the site, and browse and match with other members. You can upgrade to a VIP or VIP+ membership for unrestricted access to premium features such as private messaging, fuller photo and video libraries, seeing who likes you, and more. See our pricing page for current plans. You can manage membership online at any time.
What is a VIP member?
VIP and VIP+ members unlock premium perks including unlimited messaging, access to more photos and videos, insights on who views or likes their profile and posts, swipe rewinds, advanced search filters, priority profile placement, and related discovery tools. Compare plans and regional rates on our pricing page.
Is it discreet and secure?
Yes. As a private member community we take security, privacy and discretion seriously. We do not display personal details members use for account access, and you control what appears on your profile. Paid memberships are billed with a discreet, non-descript statement description rather than the site name. We do not sell your information to third parties.
Will you spam my inbox?
No. Our email systems follow industry sender standards. As a member you choose which notifications you want — for example new messages, matches or likes — and you can change those preferences whenever you like.
What can I expect on the site?
After you join for free you enter a community of adults looking to connect for dates, chemistry and meaningful conversation. Our customer support team is available around the clock to help keep membership easy, enjoyable and safer.
Find your spark
Explore dating, chemistry and real connections in a community built for adults who know what they want. Dive in and find people who match your energy.